Happy Thanksgiving weekend!
Iām a few weeks into writing this Substack (which I still havenāt bothered to name) and Iām already realizing my premise for how Iād use it was wrong. The explosion of Bluesky unexpectedly makes that platform seem like a viable Twitter replacement, while Iām still finding utility in X. Meanwhile, Iāve used this as ⦠a typical newsletter. Oh well!
Iām still trying to keep Substack to more of a fun time-wasting hobby than a professional side project. Iām thinking a little more each week about how to write posts that interest me in a way that also adds value for subscribers without creating work-like pressure for me.
Iām thankful to those of you who keep reading while I figure it out!
1. My best gift recommendation
I finally got some quiet time this weekend and started reading my momās book.
She didnāt write a book, per se. But she has a book now because of a Christmas present we gave her two years ago (full disclosure: It was my wifeās idea).
The gift is StoryWorth, a $99 service that sends writing prompts to the recipient. After a year, you can combine the collection into a book.
Here are sample questions:
What were your favorite toys as a child?
At what times in your life were you the happiest and why?
Who are your favorite artists?
What is one of the best trips youāve ever taken? What made it great?
How is your faith different from your parentsā faith?
The gift was for my mom, of course, but the upshot is I now have a book that Iāll always treasure. I teared up a little while reading my momās reflections. I also enjoyed learning simple things about her, like that her favorite toy was a Chatty Cathy (obviously, I went down a rabbit hole googling it).
I didnāt get curious enough about who my mom was until my mid-30s. That seems normal. We get so used to our parents, grandparents and other family members that we feel like we know everything we need to know. We treat their oft-told stories more like background than as rich family history to be probed and explored.
Or, at least I did.
In recent years, Iāve asked my mom a lot more questions. Iāve twice traveled with my mom her to her childhood neighborhood outside Chicago and interviewed her on video outside of her old house (I highly recommend interviewing your parents).
But, even as Iāve tried harder to get to know my mom, I canāt possibly know everything thatās important to her. StoryWorth gave her a chance to tell her own story, to grab the prompts and take them wherever she wanted to go.
I can tell she put substantial thought into each topic. It seems to have been a great exercise for her ā and itās giving me lasting insights that I probably wouldnāt have elicited from her on my own.
This might not be for everyone. Some people donāt like writing, and some people might find looking back to be painful. But I suspect most parents and grandparents would love the opportunity to tell their stories ā and would be honored to know those stories are valued.
2. More praise for Apple TV+
Last week, I wrote about why Apple TV+ is the best streaming service. I also linked to Sonny Bunchās streaming churn guide, which highlighted the best of other platforms.
Now, heās posted the second part of his streaming churn guide on Apple TV+ and it reinforces some of my favorite things:
Apple TV+ is probably the closest thing we have to old-school HBO in the current iteration of the streaming wars: They donāt have a ton of shows, but the shows they do have are all pretty damn great. Oh, and donāt worry: I wrote a couple of months back about Slow Horses and how itās the best show on streaming. So donāt think Iāve forgotten Gary Oldmanās spy series in the list to come. Iāll also assume that everyone has seen Ted Lasso, since itās more or less Appleās only show to make the major charts.
To his point, you probably havenāt heard about most of the shows on Apple TV+. That element of surprise is part of what makes it so fun to binge through them. āTed Lasso,ā which you probably have heard of, only makes No. 6 for me on my ranking of Apple TV+ shows.
3. Pasta sauce so good you wonāt eat out
Sam Ro flagged an interesting piece of analysis from Bank of America. It suggests Raoās pasta sauces, as well other products, are so good and popular that they might be cutting into Italian restaurant visits as people stay home and eat lots of Raoās.
My household became Raoās converts last year after The Washington Post ranked its homemade marina as the best. We tried it and loved it. Weāve been using it at least once a week lately.
Raoās has lost some street cred since it was acquired by Campbell Soup last year, but apparently the quality hasnāt suffered. Raoās offers better taste than a trip to Olive Garden ā and itās a helluva lot cheaper.
4. What I wrote
I published two columns this week for IndyStar:
5. What I read
Iām finishing up Nate Silverās book, āOn the Edge.ā I constantly defend Silver to people because heās one of the few writers who consistently makes me smarter. For example, on May 15, he wrote this about President Biden agreeing to a June debate:
By moving the first debate to before the Democratic convention in August, Democrats increase their option value. Hereās what I mean by that. If Biden totally and irrecoverably screws up in the June debate ā heās just obviously no longer ready for prime time ā then he can step down and Democrats can pull the Ezra Klein break-glass-in-case-of-emergency plan and hold a contested convention. Itās not ideal ā thatās an understatement ā but itās much less bad than going into the final months of the campaign certain to lose.
Almost no one was thinking like this in May. Silver was. He turned out to be right.
At the same time, Silver also gets into stupid social media fights, which makes people hate him.
Anyway, his book applies lessons from gambling and risk to life. Itās very good, and I highly recommend it unless you just despise Silver too much to tolerate his work, which is probably fair!
Thatās all for this week. Thank you so much for supporting my time-wasting hobby!
Raoās frozen pizza is the best of that genre.
Enjoyed